Saturday while my best friend was getting her tattoo I decided to get my vertical labret pierced, I’ve wanted it done for so long but I regret it so much. I do love the look of it, It’s crooked as fuck though. The lady lost the threading and spent several minutes trying to push through the skin with the barbell, that didn’t work so she had to re-pierce it. Both of those things hurt like a bitch. All the extra trauma have caused the top ball to embed itself into my lip. It’s so tight and hurts so much. The lady said to come back in three weeks and she’d fix it. However I don’t trust her to straighten it and I don’t want to go through this again. I’m going to get her to put in a bigger barbell, let it heal and then take it out. Ain’t nobody got time for this! It hurts so much.
Eating is a bitch and not being able to kiss my girlfriend is the worst.
because people are still asking that question
because women are payed less than men in approximately 99% of professions
because chris brown can still have a career after assaulting rihanna but miley cyrus takes her clothes off and there’s a huge scandal
because of this:
because currently it is estimated ten million more girls are out of education than boys (x)
because we’re expected to be mature but hairless like a child, in control but not bossy, sexy but not slutty and definitely not a prude, intelligent but not opinionated, independent but reliant on men, natural but look like the girl in the magazine etc etc
because being called a girl, a pussy or a bitch is an insult
because when i told my mum i refused to get anything less than a’s in my exams she told me it wasn’t ladylike to be so cocky
because my brother and 90% of my male friends think girls who wear revealing clothing are asking for rape
because every person who identifies as female should be allowed to choose if they want to get married, have kids, have a career, go to uni etc etc without expectations
because tampons and sanitary pads are stupidly expensive
because some people reading this will have flinched at the fact i just said ‘tampon’
because there are men out there whose job it is to make young girls feel like absolute shit about themselves just so they can sell the next best beauty product
because female masturbation isn’t considered normal whilst men can talk about their own penises for hours on end
because feminists are still seen as crazy lesbians who dont shave and some still feel like they have to defend themselves by claiming theyre not any of those things when in fact if i want to be a passionate lady who likes other ladies and cant be bothered to shave my legs every twenty minutes then thats my choice and if i want to be someone who wears make up and shaves and goes out partying then thats my choice and if i want to be a combination of the two or anything in between then thats. my. choice.
because i believe anyone who identifies as female is fucking badass and deserves the same rights as every privileged stuck up old white man sitting around and making laws about our bodies
because how can you not be
“I noticed that you had high heels on when you first came out. And then to put your feet in the cement you changed to a pair of Vans. Was that so you didn’t topple over or didn’t wanna ruin the shoes? Or what?" [x]